Pinterest Is Not Your Wedding Planner

Pinterest Is Not Your Wedding Planner

We’ve been hearing a lot of comments lately along the lines of “I don’t need a wedding planner, I have Pinterest!” And while Pinterest can be a handy tool, it definitely should not replace any wedding professional – planner, florist, photographer, cake baker, or otherwise.

We wrote a blog post back in 2012 about the dangers of the Pinterest/DIY wedding movement. But we thought we’d point out a few things that we’ve noticed over the past year as Pinterest has gained popularity.

1. Don’t become pin-happy. You may have 10 different boards with 10 different themes. Which is great, if you are comparing the options. But don’t expect to merge those 10 themes into one wedding. Pick one, and stick with it. It’s easy to become overwhelmed with all the options. Plus, not every idea is feasible for your venue or time of year. Don’t just pin for the sake of pinning.

2. Don’t just copy everything. Make it your own. Everything on Pinterest has been done already, that’s why there are photos of it. Your wedding should be a unique reflection of you as a couple, not what it popular or trendy. Ask yourself if that pin is something you really need/want, and does it make sense?

3. ¬†Keep your boards private. Now that Pinterest has this option, use it. Share only with those who really matter – otherwise, you’ll get input from so many people, you won’t know what you want anymore. (Plus, isn’t it fun for your guests to be surprised at your wedding?)

4. Photos can be unrealistic. As I mentioned in my previous blog post, styled or inspiration shoots are not real weddings. And in most cases, there is no way to actually recreate a majority of those looks for a wedding of 150 people. For a real-life look at Pinterest inspiration vs. reality, check out this great blog post called “Why Pinterest Gave Me Unrealistic Expections For Wedding Photos.”

5. A Pinterest board cannot be there on the day of your wedding.¬†Makeup artist Paulina Perez recently shared a story about a bride who spent hours crying on her wedding day because her mom was missing out on all the special moments that happened while she was getting ready. Her mom was at the reception venue, setting up all those DIY projects, and all the other things a wedding planner might be doing. “It was heart breaking,” Paulina said. “You knew the mother was not there because she was too busy trying to make the venue look perfect for her daughter, but all the bride could think of is ‘how could my mom not be here?’ It was a lose-lose situation on both parts.”

Pinterest is great for showing your team of wedding professionals what you like. Just be sure to edit your ideas and hire pros to make them happen!