Happy anniversary to Lauren and Jeff, who were married at TPC Sawgrass one year ago today!
(photo by Agnes Lopez)
Happy Anniversary, Lauren and Jeff!
Premier Bride New Issue Reception
Happy Anniversary, Paul & Sara!
Jennifer & Ryan (05.30.10)
We had the pleasure of coordinating Jen and Ryan's beautiful wedding at the Sawgrass Marriott Resort and Spa on May 30, 2010. Here's a peak at the slideshow created by their photographer, Ken Godwin: Vendors:
Ceremony and Reception: Sawgrass Marriott Resort and Spa
Ceremony Music: Kyle Wehner
Reception Entertainment: The Faze Band
Photography: Ken Godwin Studio
Videography: Digital Dream Productions
Floral: Anything With Plants and Flowers
Mobile Apps: What Do You Want?
Today, I finally joined the Android revolution. I've been wanting an Android phone for quite a while now, but wanted to wait for contract renewal time to get a better price. So I waited and studied and researched, and then waited some more, because the MyTouch 3G Slide from T-Mobile was coming out. Today. And now I am the proud owner of one, in white of course!
I noticed that a lot of wedding photographers have Android apps, and being a computer geek I want one too. So the question is, what would you, as a bride or wedding professional, want to see in a First Coast Weddings app?
Many such apps combine blog syndication and Twitter feeds, but is that really something a bride would use every day? I don't think I'm all that interesting.
So let me know what is missing in your Android life - and I'll try to make it happen!
Tuesday Tips: Making It Personal
The days of the "cookie-cutter" wedding are long gone - but how do you find just the right look for your big day?
- Start with something meaningful to you. Did you get engaged in Italy? Do you have a hobby that you both love? Start by incorporating touches that reflect your life together as a couple.
- Before you send save-the-dates, create a monogram, motif or other design that you can incorporate into all of your printed materials. Just remember, your monogram should not include you new last name initial until after the wedding.
- Work with your cake baker to create a custom design that reflects the look of the reception. Your cake is an important focal point for your wedding (and especially your photos!) so don't skimp here!
- Tie your reception menu in with your theme. Or, incorporate your favorite foods or family recipes! Most chefs are willing to discuss custom options, all you have to do is ask.
- Don't forget to add tablecloths, chair covers, and other decor to match the overall look!
(image above by Ten23Designs)
Tuesday Tips: Stress Busters
It's easy to get stressed out, even if you aren't planning a wedding. Here are some quick and easy ways to reduce stress in your every-day life:
- Get out of the office on your lunch break, and take a walk. If your job requires you to sit in front of a computer all day, take several breaks during the day to stretch.
- Even if you can't leave the office for lunch, don't eat lunch at your desk.
- Exercise regularly - even a game of catch with a friend or a walk with your dog will help clear your mind.
- Allow extra time to get to appointments - plan to arrive 15 minutes early, in case there is traffic, road closures, or you get lost. You should still arrive on time without being stressed!
- Don't be afraid to ask questions or ask for help. Keeping things bottled up won't solve a problem.
- When you are feeling stressed about something, ask yourself, "Is this really important?" or "Will this matter a year from now?"
- Do something creative. Doodle on a notepad, paint a picture, write a poem - anything different from your ordinary daily tasks.
Tuesday Tips: The First Look
I know: half of you are reading this saying, "what's a first look?" More and more frequently, brides and grooms are seeing each other before the wedding ceremony, even if their religion doesn't dictate doing so. It takes the pressure off, and allows a lot more time for photos. Plus this leaves time for the bride and groom to enjoy cocktail hour with their guests!
If you plan to see each other before the ceremony, ask your photographer and videographer about staging a First Look. We've been doing this for several years now, and it just gets better and better! Here are some tips for getting great photos and videos:
- Choose a great location for your first look. It should be interesting but private.
- Ask your bridal party to wait in the distance so that you two can have a few private moments together.
- Be prepared to cry - both of you. Have tissues handy!
- Be sure to talk to your wedding pros in advance. They may have ideas for locations at your venue that will look great.
Love Notes: Christina and Brandon
I just got the sweetest email from Christina, whose wedding we coordinated in February: "I never really got a chance to thank you for all the hard work you did. I am SO glad that we decided to have you coordinate everything and you did such a great job - I didn't have to worry about anything and the wedding was amazingly stress-free for my parents, Brandon, and me!"
Tuesday Tips: Postponing Your Wedding
It's not a topic that any couple wants to think about. But, some weddings do need to be postponed for one reason or another - military service, family illness, and finances, just to name a few. If you find yourself in a situation where the wedding must be re-scheduled, here are some tips:
- Let your guests know as soon as possible, so that they can change or cancel travel arrangements with the least amount of penalties. If invitations have not been mailed but the date has been announced, send a simple card explaining that the date has changed. If invitations have gone out, the guests will need to be notified by phone. Depending on the situation, you may want to enlist the help of family or close friends to make the calls.
- Ask your vendors if your deposits can be transferred to your new wedding date. Even is you don't have a new date just yet, they may agree to apply the deposit if you re-book within a certain period of time.
- If you can't re-book a vendor, ask if there is something else you can get for that money. For example, if your reception was scheduled at a country club, see if you can get a club membership, or host another family event there instead.
- All couples should look into wedding insurance. It can cover fees, deposits, etc. in case of a last-minute cancellation due to illness or death in the immediate family, as well as severe weather or major transportation shutdown.
Tuesday Tips: Trunk Shows
If you are in the market for a wedding gown, you may have seen invitations to trunk shows. And you may be wondering, what is a trunk show, and should I go to one?
A trunk show is typically one or two days, where the designer or their representative travels to a bridal salon to showcase their new line. Most salons have limited space for display and may not be able to have an entire line on hand - this gives you a chance to see more variety from a designer.
- Make an appointment! Time slots usually fill up fast.
- Talk to the designer or their rep about changes you'd like made to the dress - they should be able to easily tell you what will work and what won't.
- Ask about discounts. There may be special incentives for ordering at the trunk show, or you might get those little changes (adding length, changing the neckline, etc.) thrown in for free.
Our friends at Sharon Batten are having a Ramona Keveza trunk show this weekend. Call the shop at (904) 285-4544 for more details.
Tuesday Tips: The Bachelorette Party
When you hear the term "bachelorette party," it conjures images of drinking and craziness and strippers. And that's exactly what some people want for their "last" night out with the girls. But one of the most frequent questions I get is regarding other options for a girls' get-together. Here are some ideas to consider:
- Road Trip! It doesn't have to be a trip to Vegas, a la The Hangover, but why not take a little weekend getaway with your pals? Relax at a spa or on a beach; be adventurous and go mountain climbing or whitewater rafting; or spend a weekend shopping in another city!
- Make Something! Consider a night at a pottery-painting studio, where all the girls can paint something special for the bride. Many shops allow you to bring in food and drinks, but ask ahead of time. Are you scrapbookers? Spend a night (or weekend) creating pages to fill with wedding photos.
- Have an Old-Fashioned Sleepover! Re-live your junior high school days with your best gals. Rent movies, eat fattening food, talk about boys - so much fun!
A "bachelorette party" can really be anything that the bride and her friends enjoy doing together!
Tuesday Tips: Photography Basics
I always stress the importance of photography and videography to my clients. After the party has ended, your photos and videos are the only thing you will be left with other than memories of your wedding day. Here are some things to think about when interviewing photographers:
- What type of equipment do you use? Is it professional-grade? It's not important to get into too many specifics here, but the thing you want to know about is resolution and print size. If a photographer is using a camera from Best Buy, the resolution may not be high enough to create the wall-size portrait that you want.
- What is your backup procedure? Most pros will "dump" their media cards (usually similar to what is in your point-and-shoot digital camera) as soon as the wedding is over and back everything up to CD or DVD. But what happens from there? Is there an external hard drive backup? Does a copy get stored off-site in case of fire, theft or other damage at the studio?
- Also regarding backups, how long are your images stored? I was recently at an industry event where Master Photographer Susan Michal was addressing this issue - she has backups for every wedding she has ever shot. This might seem extreme now, but what happens if your house burns down in five years? Wouldn't it be great to know you can turn to your photographer to still have your wedding images?
- How many images are edited? If your photographer gives you a CD or DVD as part of your package, find out if these images are edited for color correction, etc.
- Can I see images from an entire wedding? Often a photographer might show you an album with one or two of the best images from several weddings - ask to log in to their online proofing website to see a full wedding.
- What are your emergency procedures? Do you have backup equipment? Do you bring it with you? What if something happens to you on the wedding day, can you send another photographer?
Christina & Brandon (02.27.10)
I had the pleasure of meeting Christina and Brandon a few months ago. They had their venue, San Marco Preservation Hall, booked - and knew they HAD to have MoJo BBQ for the reception! Christina also had some ideas on decorations, but needed help pulling everything together.
Having both ceremony and reception at San Marco Preservation Hall meant that we needed to bring in everything we needed for the reception - tent, tables, chairs, linens, service staff, and everything in between.
We called Kirby Rental to handle most everything we needed, and booked service staff from Hospitality Staff. Since February weather is so unpredictable (especially this year!), we rented outdoor heaters from Rollin' Ritas, and we certainly were glad we did when the wedding day high was 52 degrees!
Christina wanted an upscale-barbecue feel for the reception, so we chose brown pin-tuck linens with celedon green napkins. Her centerpieces were adorable - Mason jars filled with succulents created by the bride, and fresh, loosely arranged flowers by Anything With Plants.
Christina and Brandon didn't want the traditional DJ and dancing that we see at most receptions, so they opted to have their favorite trivia host provide entertainment.
The cake fit their lemon theme perfectly - Classic Cakes created a lemon cake with fresh raspberry filling that was to die for!
Photographer Kristen Barger captured all the wonderful images - we can't wait to share more. Congrats to Christina and Brandon...
Jacksonville Magazine Real Wedding!
We are so thrilled that Lauren and Jeff's wedding was featured in the latest issue of Jacksonville Magazine Bride. Click the image below to see the digital version of the magazine.
Tuesday Tips: Having a Backup Plan
For brides and grooms planning outdoor weddings, it is crucial to have a backup plan! We had a beautiful wedding on Saturday (more to come on that!) but if we had not had proper planning it could have been a disaster Saturday's forecast called for a high in the low to mid 50's... a 20-degree drop from our average this time of year! Luckily, we had planned well in advance to not only have a tent but also heaters. About a month before the wedding, we even added the side walls for the tent to keep the heat inside the tent better.
On Saturday morning, I arrived at the site, and not only was it in the high 40s, but it was raining. No worries though! Our tent was warm and dry and looking beautiful. And by the time the ceremony was over, the sun was even making a guest appearance.
Here are some things to think about if you have a non-traditional venue:
- Do you have adequate restroom facilities?
- What will happen if there is inclement weather? Don't just think about temperature or rain - what about high winds?
- What is the cancellation policy if you don't need the tent/heater/etc.?
- What is the ground like - is it even? If it rains, will it be soggy?
- Where will your vendors load in?
- Is there enough parking for your guests?
If you are thinking of hiring a planner/coordinator, be sure they have worked with this type of venue before! There are lots of little things to think about, and you don't want to realize you need to think about them when it's too late.
Consultants...and More
If you have been to a bridal show or looked at a bridal magazine recently, you may have noticed a lot of so-called "wedding planners" that offer a lot of other services. Linens, rentals, floral designs, catering, cakes... sounds like a great deal, right? Well, not always.
Let's say you decide to hire a "wedding in a box" company. There are two options: 1) they really are doing everything themselves, or 2) they are outsourcing everything. If they do everything themselves, ask yourself, do you want to work with someone who does one thing well or five things just adequately?
If they are outsourcing, then chances are they are not only collecting a fee from you for their services, but they are also adding on a percentage to the other vendors' fees. Some companies even charge their vendors a percentage of their fee, meaning the same DJ could quote you $1,000 but you end up paying $1,100 because they tack on a fee that they have to pay the "planner."
You may decide that it is worth paying a little extra to have someone handle every detail for you - great, not a problem. However, what happens if your "planner" isn't getting your vision, or you have a disagreement that makes you uncomfortable? Now you have a problem. If you fire your "planner," you lose everything - your venue, your rentals, your flowers, your catering, your cake.
Or worse, what if the company you hire suddenly disappears? Unfortunately, it has happened here in Jacksonville too often. The "planner" says he or she will take care of everything, the client writes a check, and then as the wedding day approaches the "planner" will not return phone calls. And since you met them at a Starbucks, you have no idea what their physical address is.
This post isn't meant to scare you, and all companies offering multiple services aren't bad. Just remember, as with any vendor, ask for references, check Better Business Bureau reports, and get referrals from others you trust. As my grandmother used to say, "If it sounds too good to be true, it probably is!"
Tuesday Tips: Post-Bridal Show Organization
Hopefully, you attended Sunday's bridal show at the UNF University Center. And hopefully, you left with a giant bag full of information. So now what? I'm guilty myself. Especially at the home and garden shows. I come home with all these great brochures and then they sit there, still in the bag, for a couple months until I throw the whole thing out without even looking at it again.
Let's start by sorting. Hopefully sometime this week, while everything is fresh in your mind! Pull out the brochures and postcards and flyers for the companies that really stood out in your mind. That stack is priority number one. Check out these companies' websites, or call to set up a meeting.
The next stack is for services you still need. If you've already booked your photographer, throw out all of those brochures. Even if you don't think you'll need a particular service, keep that brochure in the stack. You never know!
Now sub-divide pile #2 into the services you are currently looking for and those that you might need or ones you will focus on later. For example, you need a cake but haven't booked your venue yet; put the cake brochures in a "later" pile.
Anything that is left and doesn't fit into any of these categories, throw away! Eliminate as much clutter as possible in your wedding binder or file. The exception: see if there are any photos you can use for inspiration, and clip them out.
Hopefully these tips will help you sort through the post-bridal-show chaos!
Tuesday Tips: Addressing and Mailing Your Wedding Invitations
Your wedding invitation is the first impression your guests will receive and sets the tone for your wedding! After you've spent hours choosing just the right design and wording, don't spoil it buy having less-than-impressive envelopes!
- Consult an etiquette book for proper addressing structure.
- Invitations should always be hand-addressed.
- Consider numbering your guest list and put the same number on the back of the response card; this way, if someone doesn't write their name on the card you will know whose it is!
- Invitations should be mailed out six to eight weeks before the wedding.
Don't underestimate the value of calligraphy! If you choose to hire a calligrapher, consider these tips:
- Be sure to book your calligrapher as soon as possible, as many of the best book up far in advance.
- Include extra envelopes, just in case of a mistake, ink blot, etc.
- Give your calligrapher a typed list to ensure all names are spelled correctly. Include the formal names for the outer envelope, and the less formal names for the inner envelopes.
- Also ask your calligrapher about creating escort cards, seating charts, and other wedding accessories.
For more calligraphy and addressing advice, check out our friend Cami Franklin's website! She is one of the top calligraphers in North Florida and is extremely knowledgeable.
Photo from the The Personal Touch, Calligraphy By Cami blog
Longest Married Couple Offers Advice
Coming up on Sunday, the world's longest-married couple will answer relationship questions via Twitter! You have until Friday, February 12th to submit questions to @LongestMarried, and 14 questions will be chosen and answered on Valentine's Day.
Herbert and Zelmyra Fisher were married in 1924. According to Mashable.com, "The couple, who enjoy hanging on their front porch, watching trains pass by, counting cars and talking to their neighbors, are apparently the model of wedded bliss. They each have their own bedroom — so Herbert can stay up late watching baseball. Well, I guess distance does makes the heart grow fonder."
To read more about Mr. and Mrs. Fisher, check out this article on the AARP website recognizing their Guinness World Record.
